OPPS.
I know I had been pestering friends to hold a birthday party for their 21st. I've always thought 21st birthdays should be memorable. And I thought 21st birthdays would be memorable
only if there is a birthday party and spend it together with many people and birthday pressies. Well, I no longer think so. (Okay, at least it doesn't seem like it's enjoyable and memorable for me.)
Unless, I'm so rich to hold a birthday party in a ballroom, and make everyone do something sweet for me in order to enjoy the sumptous dinner and drink rich white wine and do ballroom dancing, OR, have it on a yacht and sail across the quiet waters reflecting the tranquil blue sky/sunset, with everyone getting seasick.
Otherwise, no. I don't wanna have a boring chalet and BBQ.
Why would it be memorable (in the enjoyable way, of course) when you have to plan everything, invite people (even friends you're not close with, and make them feel awkward standing around), organize stuff, book a place for everything... blah blah blah...
If
I'm the birthday girl, why am I planning stuff to entertain people???
Why am I even getting my parents/friends to plan stuff and help to entertain others??
Geez. So, forget it!
I rather spend my money on myself, and give a good treat to my dearest friends. (Hehe, a good treat in exchange for a better pressie yea! I'm never shy when it comes to requesting for birthday pressies!! LOL.) Imagine the money used for planning an 'elaborate' birthday party for many people, I rather spend the money on my dearest friends who deserve it!! Not friends whom I haven't seen for years!
Erm. I don't have friends who belong to the same clique, so I'm gonna treat them separately... THAT MEANS... I'm gonna eat alot too!! OPPS! Gotta gym more these few weeks...
And the day before my birthday... I'll be stuck at some scholarship award ceremony... And the planning committee suggests to have dinner together after that... I think they wanna eat
chilli crabs... AND I'm invited too... All fully paid for by the company. (So LMChloeee, make it on my actual day okie??)
oh yes, I was just thinking earlier on, I used to plan lil' surprise birthday celebrations for my friends... and I felt kinda disappointed that I've never gotta a surprise celebration before... ($%^$# those ingrates!!) Then, I recalled! At least I have surprise birthday parcel sent to my house and surprise birthday cakessss and people wanting to celebrate my birthday with me (though not a surprise)! hmmm.
Anyway, regarding my super duper bhb birthday wishlist, I will post it asap.
Oh, but for those of you who can't wait, maybe you could start considering getting a car for me. Thanks!